近况

最近，
几乎所有的人都问我一样的问题：
“毕业了吗？”
“开始做工了吗？”
“在哪间医院啊？”

我没做工，政府通知书还没到齐，
所以，
现在的我最常做的是： 宅在家！
哈哈哈~~~

看了很多很多连续剧和综艺节目^^
开始发现，
我
有“初老现象”了啦！！！

十年前，
我看的是 《麻辣鲜师》，《终极一家》， 《终极一班》，
那种搞笑兼无里头的戏。



现在，
我看的却是 《也许我不会爱你》，《原来爱就是甜蜜》，《醉后决定爱上你》，
说的都是所谓的“败犬，剩女”--年龄接近30却没爱情不得意的女人~~



长大了，
开始不相信那些骗小妹妹的爱情偶像剧。
现实里是没有既帅气又温柔体贴的白马王子，
如果遇上一个，
 那“他”一定是爱情骗子。千万要小心提防。哈哈！！！

等了四年，也够久了吧？

看着情侣们一同出游的照片，
应该是很欢乐的，
但，
我的泪却往下流。。。。

那天，
兴致勃勃地跟他说： “我好想去欧洲游哦，XXX约我”
得到的答案却是： “你怎么总是不等我？”


不是我没等，
而是你太忙，
忙课业，
忙活动，
忙实习，
忙和朋友聚餐，
忙和朋友出游。。。


其实，


我，
等了四年了~~~

my dear, good luck for your FYP ah!!!!!

Gambattle^^

I may not get to see you as often as I like.

I may not get to hold by you in your arms all through the night. 

But deep in my heart I truly hope: i'm the one that you love, and you just can't let me go.

Distance never separates two hearts that really care, for our memories span the miles and in seconds we are there. 

But whenever I start feeling sad, because I miss you, I remind myself how lucky I am to have someone so special to miss.

Distance doesn't matter if you really love the person, what matters most is your honesty and trust for that relationship to work out.

RELATiONSHiPS HAVE STAGES ♥ RELATiONSHiPS HAVE STAGES ♥

STAGE 1 (1-3 Months): The Honeymoon Stage
Everything seems perfect, both are happy and feeling “in love.” You share moments, dates and just having fun with each other, sharing laughs and giggles. It’s like nothing could stop you. Your feelings are infinite, and for once you’re thinking, “This may work out….” and it seems like nothing could go wrong. You spend hours getting ready before going out with this person.


STAGE 2 (4-6 months): The Bumpy Road
Things are going okay now. The relationship is calm and settled; both are still mostly happy. Had a couple arguments and disagreements here and there, nothing huge. Start to notice some of each other’s flaws and aspects of their personalities not seen before, but still truly care for one another. 


STAGE 3 (7-12 months): The Rocky Mountain
You start to realize who your partner really is. A few more arguments may occur. Problems with jealously, overprotectiveness may arise. Other people may come in the picture. The “in love” moments start to decrease, but you feel as if you’ve “fallen in love.” You tend to have this energy inside to strive and “make it work,” and you feel more comfortable being around this person, feeling more of yourself. 


STAGE 4 (1 year or more): The Long Road
1, 2, 3, 4, 5 years, huh? This person truly means something to you. You are “in love” with this person. He/she made a difference in your life. No one else knows you more than this person. You guys have been through the good, the bad, and the ugly, and still strive to make it last.

*If your relationship ends in this stage — You feel heartbroken; it’s tough. You can’t sleep, can’t eat, you miss him/her, you try to move on, you try meeting new people, but seems like nothing works. For whatever reason the split occured, it must’ve been something important, or something must have been so wrong that it took over. Being “just friends” is impossible, because if you tried to be friends, you wouldn’t be able to think of them in any other way besides the one you once “loved.”

可不可以

可不可以有一个人，

可以看穿我的逞强，

可以保护我的脆弱。

不要在我说“没事啦，你去吧”的时候，

就真的会放心地放开我的手然后留我一个人；

不要在我笑笑的不说话的时候，

就真的会以为我心里没有觉得疼痛和难过；

不要在我若无其事忙着手头的事的时候，

就真的以为我什么影响也没受到！